Surveys have been carried out by dumped lovers on ways their exes said ta ta to them. Match.com have compiled a list of relationship breakup donts and they are as follows:
How not to break-upUnless you want to be branded a coward, bully or cheat take special heed of these ways not to call time on your relationship.
Don’t dump via text
You’re deluded if you think ending a relationship by text (especially one written in text speak) is anything other than cruel. Imagine how disposable the recipient will feel when they realise you couldn’t even spare the time to type the words out in full. You’re basically just handing over plenty of ammunition to bad mouth you to your friends and associates.
Don’t send a break-up letter
A heartfelt emotional outpouring explaining your motivations and reasons for breaking-up is just the sort of thing the former object of your affections would appreciate right? Wrong! Receiving a random letter out of the blue is unlikely to do anything other than make them angry and bitter. Save the soul searching for another day and go make your excuses in person.
Don’t pull a vanishing act
Unless you’re actively trying to disrespect your soon-to-be ex, slipping out the back door should not even be an option. Saying you’re ‘just popping out to get some milk’, never to be seen again is not only cowardly but morally reprehensible. Dealing with the pain of break-up is hard enough without the added anguish of not knowing what’s become of you.
For the remaining breakup donts please click on the link below, i know i did boy was i shocked at what i saw. Source yahoo.com
http://uk.match.yahoo.net/edito/index.php?mtcmk=080405&name=5/119/1779-how-not-to-break-up.html
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